Why is There no Control in Human Psychology?
If we think in terms of equations or the theory of physics, the most complex subject we will find is probably human psychology. It is controlled by parameters over which the individual has no control. No matter how high a person’s personality may be, his childish behaviors remain with those he cares about the closest. He also openly disclosed his personal matters to him. Not even the slightest control is observed here. Who will be the person who is so close to him, that person does not have control.
Perhaps it is by nature that we look for a creator in all theories, to look for his control. But it is not impossible to have an example of God’s control over the things we go through. Perhaps by combining those controls on human psychology, he composed this vast control.
But everything has a twist. All psychology has weaknesses somewhere. Sometimes it is revealed, sometimes it remains hidden. A man sometimes changes his behavior to hide an event or subject in his life from himself. Where at least it seems, the person has been able to establish control over his psychology. But that doesn’t happen. Here the person has no control over any previous and subsequent events. He only tries to turn his temporal vision and vision in different directions. So that what he wants to remember and what he wants to forget, the fractions more or less change direction. And he was relieved.
What remains in between is silence or laughter. Where a man tries to hide his physical and mental injuries. In that situation, his psychology began to change direction frequently. Here he thinks too much about being hurt or worried about her and the psychology becomes uncontrollable.
And this is how man again loses temporary control over his psychology. A brilliant student makes two types of mistakes. One- He thinks simple things hard. Two- He thinks about all the issues, easy or difficult, from different angles. His first takes precious time away from him and the second brings him time. But he has no control over any of it.
